I suddenly have a chunk of thoughts and I wanna type them all down.
No, not that my relationship has any problem nor is my boyfriend treating me unwell.
I am very well-loved now and having a great life, hehe :)
But just that I wanna share my thoughts, because I see so many people suffering sometimes!
Well, it's amazing how people can meet and then fall in love.
I see many people falling in and out of love, many people cry and some don't even care.
It takes two hands to clap, love is a mutual feeling.
If you want your partner to treat you how you expect him/her to, then you too, shall reflect on yourself. Ask yourself, are you worth it? Are you worth your partner loving you?
Don't be amazed when the answer is, No. You are not.
You don't expect too much from your partner and thinks that everything you do is right.
But think, when he/she acts the same way like you do, are you able to accept it?
Don't take love for granted, don't expect your partner to be forever there for you even though he/she may seems to be. Give and take, Give and take.
When your relationship is long, it doesn't mean that it's strong.
Sometimes, you are just too comfortable to make a change and start all over again.
You just don't bear to put it all down and keep it safe as memories, because you feel guilty. But is there still Love? Or is it just because you don't bear to hurt your partner, to tell him/her that you doesn't love anymore? A question to ponder but it's certainly confusing.
Alright, I know it's easier said than done. But whatever it is, I think that you shouldn't be guilty to let go of one relationship just because both of you have given so much and done so much. But the thing is, the whole reason for starting and being in a relationship is LOVE. When there's no love between you and your partner anymore, what for continue?
Well, it might be hard, but time will definitely heal.
So, stay happy all my friends.
Love and be loved.
I am very well-loved now and having a great life, hehe :)
But just that I wanna share my thoughts, because I see so many people suffering sometimes!
Well, it's amazing how people can meet and then fall in love.
I see many people falling in and out of love, many people cry and some don't even care.
It takes two hands to clap, love is a mutual feeling.
If you want your partner to treat you how you expect him/her to, then you too, shall reflect on yourself. Ask yourself, are you worth it? Are you worth your partner loving you?
Don't be amazed when the answer is, No. You are not.
You don't expect too much from your partner and thinks that everything you do is right.
But think, when he/she acts the same way like you do, are you able to accept it?
Don't take love for granted, don't expect your partner to be forever there for you even though he/she may seems to be. Give and take, Give and take.
When your relationship is long, it doesn't mean that it's strong.
Sometimes, you are just too comfortable to make a change and start all over again.
You just don't bear to put it all down and keep it safe as memories, because you feel guilty. But is there still Love? Or is it just because you don't bear to hurt your partner, to tell him/her that you doesn't love anymore? A question to ponder but it's certainly confusing.
Alright, I know it's easier said than done. But whatever it is, I think that you shouldn't be guilty to let go of one relationship just because both of you have given so much and done so much. But the thing is, the whole reason for starting and being in a relationship is LOVE. When there's no love between you and your partner anymore, what for continue?
Well, it might be hard, but time will definitely heal.
So, stay happy all my friends.
Love and be loved.
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